Surf and Athena Wrestling |
I realized that I had over the years become a cat lover, but only gray cats! While living in our apartment, I had to spend almost a month wearing hats or wraps to bed because Surf would sleep on top of my head on my pillow and lick and chew my hair off around my forehead. Needless to say bangs were not my best look, but I didn't really have a choice. Our other issue with apartment living was Surf trying to escape to go play outside every single time the door opened, so to avoid him getting ran over in my apartment parking lot, I taught Surf how to walk on a leash. The kids at my apartment loved playing with him when he was on his leash. I then got a job in Jacksonville Beach and we had to move. Let's just say neither cat was happy about the move, but Surf made it known he didn't like the move. I thought he would never go back to the sweet loving cat I remembered, but eventually he did. Surf loved spending time on the screened in porch, he had tones of bugs to tract and eat all from the comfort of his porch. Everyone loved Surf because he was so social and had such a great personality. While in Jacksonville, I had to have my second ankle surgery and my parents came down to help me out. My mom ended up staying with us for 6 weeks. During that time, Surf was my constant babysitter. Every night when I went to bed with my feet prop up, Surf would sleep on my chest while I slept and when my mom would come in to check on me and give me my medicine, Surf would get up and go to the bathroom and get a drink and when my mom went back to bed, Surf would climb back up on my chest and keep an eye on me.
He was so sweet. My mom had a fun time dealing with Surf during this time as well, he could be kind of wild and stubborn, so they sometimes butted heads, but that was just Surf. After my surgery, I started dating Chris and even though Chris goofs around and says Surf didn't like him because he swatted him in the eye, Surf really did like him. To be honest if Surf swatted you in the eye, he loved you. Just ask my mom and Ava. We then moved from our scary San Pablo apartment to Ponte Vedra Beach. The new apartment had the most room and Surf and Coral loved all of the room. We only stayed there a few months before we moved back to Brunswick. We moved in with Chris and his 2 cats, Emma and Pepper. Talk about a tough adjustment, it took forever, but everyone settled in. Surf and Coral were still the closest and were always together either playing or snuggled up sleeping. Surf loved all of the room we had in the new house and all of the high cabinets he could watch from. Chris and Surf worked out their differences and Surf would even head butt Chris and sleep in his laundry that came straight out the dryer. Chris always said my cats were too spoiled and you know what, they were, but I loved them so it didn't matter to me. Chris and I then adopted a yellow lab puppy named Shells. Surf was so not a fan of Shells. Surf didn't like the fast pace of Shells or being chased by her. Surf was not going to let this puppy run the house, that was Surf's job. After a few swats, Surf had made it clear that he was the alpha male in this house. The funniest thing ever was when Surf was in the kitchen and Shells wouldn't go through the kitchen without me walking with her, as a buffer, because she was afraid of Surf. Our 50 lb dog was afraid of our 9 lb cat, who would have ever thought. On February 14, 2012 I took Surf to the vet because he seemed like he wasn't feeling well. I had no idea that they would tell me he had cancer and they thought he would only have a couple more days to live. I was devastated, but spent the next 3 weeks making Surf's live as wonderful and comfortable as I could. I also tried to prepare Coral as much as possible for her best friend to not always be there. Sadly Surf lost his fight with cancer. Since I had moved here with no family or friends around, he became my family and friend. We had been through the good and bad together. No matter what would happen, he could always make me smile and feel better. Though my family situation has changed over the years, he has and always will hold a very special part of my heart. I will always have many funny and wonderful memories of one of the best cats I could have asked for. Surf I will miss you and love you always.